I don't think that the older Beo4s will go into link mode.
With reference to the BL3500 User Guide: Where it states 'control the main room source' it basically means everything except the volume/sound controls.
One anomaly relates to using the BL3500 in an older MCL system - with this system the audio was distributed at speaker level. Hence adjusting volume in link rooms can effect the volume in a main room even when using an active speaker. This is of no help in your situation.
I would try the 'Beolink Active' option that I mentioned above, or get the BS9000's IR board fixed!
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