Dave I have a Goldstar 40Mhz scope (with cursor display) which is not too bad at all - if you are interested you are welcome to view and make me an offer :) I also have a 20Mhz of the same model but am keeping this for audio. Folks on other audio restor forums seem to really like Tek scopes!
I have said this before - digital scopes don't really match analogues for analogue / audio and modulated signals IMO. They are superb for digital signals and very convenient to be able to press the 'setup' button and have the scope set up all the ranges itself - they are also nice and compact so free a lot of space if things are tight!
Soldering iron there is only one choice IMO - OKI Metcal :) Get an SP200 s/h off ebay I doubt you'll want to use anything else again! They are expensive though and only worth it if you do lots of work - or just want to treat yourself!!! Wellers are also super cool, but IMO not up to a Metcal. Forget about cheap stuff especially from Maplin etc they are no good really.
Thought I would link as an example of the versatility of the metcal - I used my 'normal' chisel tip on the (held my breath) without changing the temperature (you can't with these and don't ever need to anyway) I can go straight from that to a huge can and desolder almost immediately - It is not that the tip is hotter - The irons use RF tech. The tip is reactive and has the ability to heat on demand - just amazing! Oh and did I mention the 8 second heat up time :-D
Dual tracking PSU there are some interesting modern Chinese ones on the bay but of course many folk would rather have something they feel is better made - you pay your money! S/h off ebay?
Freq. Meter I can't remember my model it is a blackstar very accurate and small! I do want one of those nixie tube counters though just for the cool factor :)
Dummy loads I thought you would be ok with this subject ;-) - I personally think high powered resistors are ok for domestic amplifiers!
My isol transformer is a Maplin torroidal I very rarely use as I don't do valve or live chassis stuff. I use an RCD for personal protection. Variac I have two one is too small the other is one my grandfather used to control cine lighting for titling films. I saw a beefy s/h unit go on ebay for very little recently! I also think there is a place for mains bulbs too :)
Volt Meter Fluke / Metrix / Agilent? etc. etc. Check out EVE blog and mjlorton on youtube.
ESR meter there is only one and the company lives down the road from me - Peakelec.co.uk Lovely compact unit, hand assebled in Buxton and you can go along, pick up and talk to them :) You won't really use them for fault finding though, only to confirm what you already measure / suspect.
Suppliers there are good vintage suppliers listed on another vintage audio forum I won't mention one being in Canada I think. Generally you probably won't get a 50uF capacitor but the tolerance of old components will have left the value no where near the 50uf anyway so 47 would be absolutely fine! Obviously there may be instances where the tolerance is more important!
I like some of the American suppliers but you need to bulk order to make it worth it - normally over £50 gets free postage. Mouser send you a nice big paper catalogue which is rare these days!
Regards datasheets etc. Google is your friend here! I threw most of my books out tbh!
Oh DealExtreme sell some great solderwick that works well for half the price over here I will try to find the SKU hang on.... http://www.dealextreme.com/p/soldering-remover-3mm-x-1-5m-9159