You know there is a B&O store in Wayne, PA (on the "Main Line"), yes? Not them, but other individual Bang&Olufsen stores have a "preowned" tab on their websites, with conditions & prices listed. The guys at beoboston(.com) are very easy to deal with. I don't know about NYC. But you'd have to make a trip to pick items up because commercially shipping used B&O gear always seems to break something. Also the B&O stores are all in high-rent districts, so even "bargains" are priced to cover their high overhead.
Good luck -- I think in your shoes I'd do the ugly-American thing: buy lots of brand-new second-tier stuff for cheap. A buncha Vizio TV's to hide your brackets, even brand new, will cost less than a single used B&O TV from a B&O store. ("... Hell, [get] a *herd* of Winnebago's, we're *giving* 'em away!" -- The Tubes, "What Do You Want From Life")
When / if you are ready to upgrade -- not B&O, but in Ardmore, nearby -- I found World Wide Stereo to have uniformly high quality equipment, with some value tilt -- almost like there is a single buyer's mind behind the selection. Of course they have lots of salespeople, prices looked typically list, and I imagine they make most of their revenue on big-ticket home-theater installations. (Apparently their renovated in-house theater is worth the drive.) But they were cordial when I just wanted to see the colors of an inexpensive BDI "Bink" table in the flesh.
(P.S. Best Buy also has returns for sale; price/quantity is store-specific and shown individually on their website for your local store! P.P.S. Sears might be desperate so give you a card with E-Z application, but its stores are hollowed out and the company declared bankruptcy, so not sure what you can buy with it.)