Hi 69er
I would hold off on the two big caps for now, they are not used during Standby.
You say the relay opens upon attaching power to the unit. This is the normal Standby state of the relay 2RL1. The microprocessor system must de-energize this relay to turn the system ON. At this point, the two large 10,000uf capacitors come into play.
In particular, p-14 pins 1,2,3,4,5 and 9 seem most relevant to Standby.
You say pin p-14-4 is at 18v. I believe it should be at 8v.
You did not say what p-14-2 is at. It should be around 13v according to the schematic, I could check on my system later.
You said that p-14-6 is at 12v. According to the schematic, it should be around 40v. This comes from the main power winding of the transformer, tthrough a 15 ohm Fusible resistor 2R18, rectified by diode 2D10 and filtered by capacitor 2C10. As resistor 2R18 is designed to blow open like a fuse, it is a likely failure point for this circuit.
This apparently powers the infrared remote control on display board 9, so I'm not sure how much it would affect Standby. Of course, something like this "could" drag down voltage from elsewhere, like maybe the 5v Standby. If 2R18 is indeed open-circuited, the most likely cause is a short circuit in capacitors 9C15 or 9C20 on display board 9.
I would first check resistor 2R18. It should read 15 ohms or possibly less if in circuit but not more.
If 2R18 is found to be "open" it must be replaced with a similar 15 ohm Fusible resistor. If it is replaced with a regular 15 ohm resistor, causing damage elsewhere is more likely.
You might also try unplugging connector P11 on display board 9 to see if this has an effect on Standby voltage. If I am right, about 5.1v Standby voltage being dragged down, I would start here.
Also, What is voltage on 2P14-2 and 2P14-4? 18V seems wrong for 2P14-4 2P14-9 should be 0v.
Good luck!