I hear you brother. The whole point is, if you bought the product from a B&O dealer you should expect a solution. That includes the ability to get competent installation, whether you do it yourself or anyone does it for you. That goes for BeoPlay or B&O, in my opinion. All the other stuff is noise.
I bought my wife jewelry at a nice shop which, for me, was pricey. They promised I would get an insurance statement in the mail by 1 January. Still waiting. Lovely jewelry, pissed about the silly little insurance letter. It's those things that often trigger my disappointment from high expectations. Easy to resolve, but I won't get back the time and energy it takes to do it.