j0hnbarker wrote:
As for a secret ballot? We're talking about B&O popping an advert on the site, not buying it outright or evicting us from the internet...
Ok - fair enough. As enough people have pointed out this is your site. But please, why ask the question when judging from the above your mind was already made up? If it's just to rubber stamp what you already know will be the answer then I think the whole exercise is disingenuous. Were you really expecting a chorus of disapproval? Honestly?
Sorry - I've hardly been a troublesome member, but this issue has touched a nerve as I feel that questions are being asked, then dissenting members are being shouted down. I'll go and stand in the corner until I have had chance to think about what I've done wrong!
John, you're not 'troublesome' at all, as you rightly state - and i'm sorry this issue has touched a nerve. I don't feel you have been shouted down at all though. You raised issues, i answered. We both have points of view, and not once did i say you were wrong - i just felt you had missed the essence of the whole thing. I still respect your opinions though, and that's what a good forum is all about.
If the majority of members had felt it not to be a good idea, i would not have proceeded - i can hand on heart promise you that. However, the general concensus seems to be 'let's go for it and see what happens'. If it starts to feel uncomfortable, we will reassess. I doubt anyone would be shy about coming forward if either myself, the moderators, or indeed the whole site started to veer off the path we are on - so i think the 10,500 members would be good judges of that.
I can honestly say that if i tried to please absolutely everyone, all of the time, i would spend my entire BeoWorld life running in circles and tying myself in knots achieving nothing. It's unbelievably difficult to act on everyones ideas at the same time in unison, so there will always be someone who feels ignored - it's inescapable. The moderating team thought it was a good idea, but wanted to hear the members views - which were, in general, positive.
As for the people pointing out that 'this is your site' - well, yes.. the loans are in my name, against my home, and i'm responsible for the bills that keep rising as we improve and expand - but beyond that, i couldn't exactly run a website if i was the only member. In the end i have to make the ultimate decision though - someone has to.
I will now speak to B&O and see what we can do that benefits both parties. A win/win is the aim, and i'm sure it will be the result.
Lee
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