Well, the Dynaudio speakers are very good, in a good room they are probably more than a little superior to the Beolab 8000s, or the 17s, as much as I love B&O I realize that there are indeed superior speakers out there.
But, if the room interaction is not good, no matter how good the midrange and tweeters are (and I do love Dynaudio tweeters, having used them in numerous designs of mine, a superlative tweeter), the speaker won't be pleasing.
Square rooms are always problems. Problem is, it's damned hard to control the standing waves. You get peaks and suckouts. Peaks you can sometimes tame with a parametric equalizer, where you can control not only the center frequency of the equalizer slider, but also the Q, or width, of the cut or boost. This works well for cutting a peak, but it's impossible to fill in a dip or suckout due to the waves cancelling out. If you boost that frequency, it just boosts the cutout, the cancellation will still be there, no effect.
Have you considered various things like Tube Traps and other bass control room treatments? Tried perhaps arranging the speakers asymmetrically? Even arrange your listening position not aligned with the walls, say one speaker on one wall and another on the adjacent wall with your listening chair angled in the room?
Tough problem, bad rooms can be terrible. I personally love the hard surfaced, no carpet, highly minimalist modernist look, but also know that is horrible for music systems, tends to be bright and echo prone. So, I have a large carpet on the wood floors in my listening room, and a wall hanging that helps disperse any ill effects from the general minimalist furnishings I have.
I knew a person who solved a problem similar to yours by going to subwoofers added to his full range speakers, as strange as that sounds. He put his main speakers where they needed to be for his listening position and to sound best for the midrange and treble, and crossed them over to two subwoofers. He place the subs in different locations in the room, not symmetrical, so as to drive the room modes in different ways by each subwoofer, evening out the bass standing waves that way. I seem to recall the final arrangement was one sub towards the corner to the left of the left main speaker, and the other in about the middle of the wall behind his listening couch. Seemed to work. But that can get complicated and takes a lot of trial and error and measurement. If you don't have a good spl meter and test hardware/signal generators and such it can be hard to do by ear, but possible. Time consuming but possible.
I wish you luck with it, not having a good sounding stereo is awful!