Just a quick hint, older ML products was not designed to be operated from ML when in option 5 or 6 as prior to the gateway there really was no point
so many older BeoVisions will not take commands from gateway when they are in option 6, try putting your BV3 in option 2 and remove your BV7 from ML or change it to option 6 so you only have one video master on ML (the sw on BV7 was updated so if you are somewhat up to date you can operate the BV7 while it's in option 6 no problem) I can't remember if a sw update was ever made for the BV3 but check with your dealer they can look it up
next you'll have to redo the MLN assignmen on your gateway for the Two TV'st as the video master always gets address 00000000 on ML
now I'm sure you can operate your BV3
hope that helps