In the 9-pin connector.
I think you can ignore Pins 1 and 2, as they relate to BtB (Hotel version control)
Pins 4 and 9 relate to light sense - but the BS3 manual states that they are not used (at least when the manual was produced).
Pins 3, 7 and 8 give IR control as already discussed.
This leaves pins 5 and 6, PT led and S.B led.
I would hazard a guess that these relate to 'Play Timer'(Green LED?) and 'Standby'(red LED?) respectively, hence connecting to the remaining two terminals on the puck would display these LED indications, if the IR eye has these. You could check whether the IR eye lights up in this manner by applying a small voltage (2-3V) to each terminal in turn (-ve to ground, obviously).