Well...
I too have been watching the whole BM5/BS5 platform roll out.
I have stayed away from threads since the launch to frankly see if it panned out. I had no intent of ever buying one as I am a staunch fanatic of Apple/Itunes/Airport Express/Touch. I know a lot of people here invested a great deal of money, time, and effort in the new platform and except for a handful of them, there seems to be more problems than satisfaction.
All of us here want to see B&o thrive and I do not intend to come off as: "I told you so..." rather, I think that the BS5 could still be a great thing! So, and to my point...
I look back at say a BM4400: all features were right in front of you, clearly labeled. It was a giant mechanical monster that frankly is still relevant today! Then on to the BM2400: much simpler interface, but also well put together... and still does today exactly what it was supposed to do 25 years ago!
FFWD to the BS5: B&o attempted to create a competitive platform for current home audio desires. Their design and styling department seemingly fit the bill. Most people seem to like the looks and feel of the platform. It has a tactile quality that Apple, etc... lack. There is a sense of quality and solidity and ease of use that B&o is so good at rolling out. So, what happened?
I suppose that Moore's Law came into play a bit here, and that B&o (for lots of reasons) are a bit behind the curve when it comes to software. Of course, being software-challenged is certainly something that is fixable -and would go a long way to solving issues with other products.
I am curious: Does B&o do all their own programming from conception to patching? Is it outsourced? I know that resources are limited, but they need to put their coin into their software development. Get things right there before developing any new products! If they can "commonize" their software and get it clicking, the rest comes easy for them!