Thanks Marcello. Unfortunately, Apple Extreme routers do not allow for disabling the 5ghz frequency...
I had forgotten about it sorry. I was under the impression that you could disable by Alt-Clicking Radio mode in the Wireless Options window of Airport Utility but I was wrong, I double-checked and you can only have better control on the protocols.
BTW, if you need a suggestion for an alternative I switched to a Netgear R6250 as the access point in the living room and to a R7000 as my main router. The extreme (the "brick" version) became too obsolete for my needs.
Edit: By the way I can confirm that when I had the 5Ghz I had no dropouts. Either the TV would detect the speakers at power-on or it wouldn't.